As a full-time Mommy to two active little kiddos, I live nearly three-quarters of my existence schlepping around in my playground digs. You know the look: boyfriend jeans, Project E distressed tee (which I have in several colors and prints), sometimes Chucks, sometimes Havaiana flip-flops (Yes, it’s Tampa!), and more often than I’d like to admit, a baseball cap. Did I mention NO make-up? Yes… quite the vision. This is my disguise from the paparazzi of course. That, and running around after children is a tad more difficult while rocking a five inch platform heel. I often dread running into a client or fellow fashionista. They’ll think I have no idea what I’m talking about. “Fashion?… um, her?”
But that’s just my world right now. That’s how I roll! You may run into me in the grocery store one day and, odds are, I’ll be wearing the uniform described above. It’s like living a double life… being a fashion stylist AND a stay-at-home Mom. As a fashion expert, my clients and readers have certain expectations for what I should look like. Naturally! I live for being a fashion plate… trust me. But the reality is that nobody can be glamorous all the time… especially if your reality does not include full-time nannies, hair stylists, and make-up artists.
My life is happening at a lightning pace and in order for me to live in the NOW and enjoy it, I gotta move quickly to keep up. That usually means I’m sacrificing the luxury of getting dressed up in order to get out the door in under 10 minutes!
Here are a few picks from my list of absolutely required, can’t live without, gotta have it, need it to survive, “I Want It Now” necessities to enhance my wardrobe:
#1 Cream Oxford Flats
I can wear these with everything! Dresses, shorts, pants? YES! I love the neutral color and how the soft woven texture adds a feminine touch to this otherwise masculine style.
#2 Straw Fedora Hat
I am definitely a hat person, but you don’t have to be a connoisseur to enjoy this trend. Another piece that would go with just about every Spring ensemble in my closet. Gotta have it!
#3 Pinky Nude Nails
Coney Island Cotton Candy is my favorite OPI color. My nail tech can attest to this… I’ve been wearing it for years! Love it!
#4 Single Shoulder Swimsuit
The single shoulder trend was all over the runways this season and swimsuits were no exception. I love this one by Diane Von Furstenberg because it’s a great twist on the classic one-piece swimsuit.
Like Veruca Salt, my appetite (for fashion) is insatiable! I have many, many more must haves on my list for this season… which I will share in future blogs of course. Are there any pieces you’ve been dreaming about lately?
Spring Fashion Trend: STRIPES
The origin of this trend stems way back to the 1800’s in the French Province of Brittany. What we commonly refer to as “nautical stripes” (navy and white) are actually called Breton stripes. The 1858 Act of France made the Breton shirt part of the official uniform for French Navy seamen. There were 21 stripes- one for each of Napoleon’s victories. The stripes were also thought to help locate men who fell overboard.
In the 1930’s CoCo Chanel launched Breton stripes into the fashion mainstream after becoming inspired by a visit to the French Coast. She designed and wore a simple striped tee with palazzo pants and, well… the rest is history!
I pulled a few striped pieces from my closet and decided to take some pics of my favorite ensembles. I have several Breton pieces, but wanted to play with the other striped goodies for this shoot. Forgive the poor quality of these shots, as I am on the hunt for a better camera.
This red and white striped mini dress is by Soprano from Nordstrom. I love the simplicity of this cut and the cotton blend is super comfy! What drew me in (besides the $38 price tag) is the ruching detail on the sleeves. There’s a small pocket on the top left side that I could do without, but it’s barely noticeable. I accessorized with a long, silver necklace (which is actually a vintage purse strap), a turquoise cocktail ring, and a sexy pair of nude Gianni Bini heels. This look is perfect for date night!
This look combines stripes and a floral print to create an unexpected twist… which I like to do on occasion. The floral blouse is DmBm from Nordstrom … very inexpensive! The striped crop jacket is Ett Taia and the white jeans are Joe’s, both from local designer consigner Fresh Threads. The jacket is a bit boxy, so it calls for a flowy and feminine blouse underneath to balance the look. Paired with a nude peep toe pump, this look is great for lunching with friends.
Here’s my bohemian side begging to be set free! The maxi dress is Color Me Red and the striped vest is Project E Vintage, both from Keys Country. I like this ensemble because it’s super comfy and makes me feel like Mother Earth. I’ve paired it with a fabulous necklace made by local jewelry designer Marianne Homsy and grecian Bandolino sandals. I could lounge around town all day in this one!
I’m currently obsessed with all things striped! While doing some research about the origins of nautical stripes in fashion (for an upcoming blog post), I discovered that I own more striped pieces than any one person should. Some are old, some are new, and all of them are Spring’s answer to “What’s a good staple for the season?”… a question I’m sure everyone is asking, right?
Today’s look is 2 parts stripes, 1 part casual, one party querky. Comfort was the goal here… it’s a beautiful beach kinda day and I’m ready to lounge with a cocktail in hand! Stripes on stripes can be tricky, but this look works because both pieces share the same color story of navy and white, and pairing them together creates an unexpected touch of interest that I love!
Two notable details from this ensemble: I like the dress super long, to wear with my 4″ high platform espadrilles, but for the flat sandals I needed to shorten it… enter military belt. The belt helps anchor the dress at my waist so I can pull the hemline up a few inches and it stays put. Also, the necklace is actually 3 different chains I found in my jewelry drawer. All three are silver or silver and gold with varying designs, but when linked together they form one unique piece of jewelry. Very rock-n-roll!
First thing’s first: Let’s shop the closet!
After a sit-down with my personal CFO (Mr. Wallet), I’ve decided that it would be a good idea to work with what I’ve already got in my closet before I go out hunting in the Fashion Forest. Mr. Wallet agrees… the hunt can be very dangerous for him after all.
I’ll begin by pulling out all of the old styles that I no longer wear. Whether it’s a tired old cardigan from my preppy phase or a pleated floral skirt that now reminds me of a lamp shade, I’ll pull it. Why waste valuable real estate holding on to pieces that I know I’ll never wear again? But what’s this?… an old pair of brown culottes from Express? First of all, what the heck was I thinking? Yes, I wore them once or twice… somehow I rocked the culottes. Paired with tall boots and turtle neck, they weren’t so bad. To toss or not to toss? That is the question. Hmmmm… I’ve got it! Let’s modify the culottes. Genius!
So I took them to my tailor and we turned them into shorts!
Now the hunt begins! I’m going through my closet piece by piece, thinking of ways to update and recreate some of my old favorites. It just takes a little imagination and a great tailor! I’ll keep you posted 🙂
I have spent the last four years playing the part of Mommy to my two little ones. In my pre-Mommy life I had a fabulous wardrobe, filled with designer clothing… the envy of any respectable fashionista. Over the course of those four years I have managed to sell, consign or donate nearly every piece that made me smile. Presently, I am left with mere memories of a life of fashion. My racks and shelves are now less impressed with the cotton tanks and jean shorts that they begrudgingly house. Purging the beauty of that space in favor of the functional has left a hole in my closet, which I now refer to as “the comfy zone”. This is a backhanded compliment of course.
I will be venturing back into the fashion industry in a few short months and feel ill-prepared for what lies ahead. I am no longer beaming with pride when I step into what once was considered my “Vault of Style”. These days, I stand in the middle of my closet staring aimlessly at the racks of playground wear and sigh. Well that’s all about to change! I am going on a journey of rediscovery, a quest for higher fashion, if you will. I am going to shop this town like nobody’s done before! … and on a shoestring budget. This is gonna be fun!! I’ll keep you posted on my progress. Wish me luck!
Here are a couple of pictures of my closet before my transformation from butterfly to caterpillar: